You don't know why
they disappeared.
Upload the chat. In 60 seconds Lab tells you exactly where the thread broke — with quotes, dates and the real pattern.
- No card
- Result in 1 minute
- Only your data
If you recognise yourself, you're in the right place
- You re-read the last messages 10 times looking for 'the mistake'.
- You don't know if they're offended or just busy.
- You think about writing 'everything okay?' but you know it makes it worse.
- You'd like to see the situation from the outside, just once.
What Lab replies
Last warm exchange: 12 days ago, on Slack — their closing with a heart. It's not a fight.
What changed: on 4/5 you sent 3 messages without them closing the previous ones. Pattern of perceived pressure, not reduced interest.
They're in a withdrawal phase, not a closing phase. The difference matters.
See the pattern
Not an opinion: the map of who opened, closed, ignored. Dated.
Stop ruminating
One session and you come out with a reading. Not with another 4 hours of scrolling.
Decide knowing
Write, wait, let go — whatever it is, you do it with the data in hand.
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to upload the chat?+
No. Lab works just by describing the situation. But with the chat inside it's 10x more precise — quotes, dates, traced phases.
Do my messages go around?+
No. European servers, no advertising third parties, no model training. Total deletion in 1 click.
Does it tell me what to write?+
Only if you ask. Lab is a reading tool, not a ready-made message generator.
Does it work for a friend too, not just a relationship?+
Yes. Works for any relational dynamic: partner, close friend, colleague, ex.
In 60 seconds you know what really happened.
One free session is enough to know. If you don't need it, you'll see right away.
No card required · Cancel in 1 click